I don't think it's the FBI guy who went with Lisbon to invertiew Lorelei Martins' mother. Lorelei couldn't have known that they schook hands. Of course it's possible it's a mistake from the writers but..let's assume it's not.
Bret Stiles is someone that everyone thinks off. He appears often and is smart. It's possible his visualize is the organ that kills, seeing that all of Bret Stiles' people blindly follow him. Also Stiles was in the episode when Jane found out that he knows Red John. But because alot of people think he's Red John, I don't. It would be too easy.
Brett Patridge might be the one. First off there's his voice. Though many of you would find the voice match to easy to guess, I for instance didn't even know about it untill I saw some videos (just now) and read some stuff about it on the forum. I don't think the writers would ever guess so many people would be trying to find out who Red John is. But then again, since most of the people here think he's RJ, he just might not be the one. But the Enigma is the main reason why it's probably him. The poem 'The Tiger' is key in finding out who RJ is, Jane knows that. It's written by William Blake, who drew a partridge in the title. Partridge <-> Patridge. When it comes to shows, especially the ones as good is The Mentalist, I don't really believe in coincidence...
But then again. The way Lorelei said 'you should have become friends when you shoke his hands' (or something like that) makes it seem like they don't really like each other and that they have only met once/in one episode...
No real suspect, just some thoughts :)