I don't know if all of you remember this bizarre character that was introduced in edpisode 3x9 "Red Moon". It's a bit strange because when a character is introduced in has something to do in the episode, right? I mean, is not just put in there without an epilogue. So I think that RJ is Ellis Mar: http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_jBuO6o0VUr8/TRbZ_hcNBRI/AAAAAAAABOU/1Y1n8GsMKKw/s320/billingsleythementali...
Supporting my theory I say:
1. Is older than Jane so it is appropriate (he must be older)
2. Is a mentalist like Jane, a good one.
3. In season one... the writings on the bathroom wall made by the prostitute "He is man\r" can suggest that the escaped prisoner(lol I don't remember the name) said to the prostitute to write the name (because you can see that was the prostitute that wrote the name) but he was dying and spelled is wrong.
4. It is an insignificant character, no one knows and also laughs about him, thinking he could be RJ. That fits more than ever in my opinion, because in the series style. You don't know what's happening till the very end. Just think of it:
-You realize Brett Partridge is RJ ---> meh guessed
-Or Brett Stiles ---> lots of theories
-Gale Bertram ---> as above
And I can go on and on with almost every character portrayed in the show, no one would give a damn that Ellis Mar is RJ. Sorry for long post.