I believe its Ray. He fits most of the description. He visited Lisbon in hospital. Also, they killed his character off in the show Bones which leads me to believe they are giving him time to shoot more episodes of The Mentalist. I am not really sure if the list is fake. Some say its real some say its not. I hope they kill off multiple people at once, maybe leading to Red John dying and no one ever finding out who he is.
